A Guide to Speaking Sensitively about Suicide
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The language we use to speak about sensitive topics can build connection or deepen isolation, especially when talking about suicide. Whether you’re supporting someone, speaking publicly or just trying to be more mindful in everyday conversation, your words make a difference.
Why sensitivity saves lives
The way we talk about suicide has a real influence on lives. Studies have shown that irresponsible media coverage can increase suicide rates, especially among vulnerable groups. The public suicide of one celebrity once saw U.S. suicide rates rise by 10%, with a 32% increase in deaths by the same means (CNN Health). Graphic or sensational language can activate suicidal thoughts in those already at risk. That’s why the Centers for Disease Control & Prevention (CDC), World Health Organization (WHO) and Suicide Prevention Resource Center recommend using clear, non-sensational language.
Say this, not that
Below are some examples of potentially harmful language and suggested alternatives.
| Instead of... | Try saying... | Why it matters |
| "Committed suicide" | "Died by suicide/completed suicide" | “Committed” implies a crime or sin. Suicide is a health crisis, not a moral failing. |
| "Successful suicide" | "Suicide death" or "death by suicide" | Labeling a suicide “successful” can imply an endorsement of the outcome. |
| "Failed suicide attempt" | "Survived a suicide attempt" | “Failed” implies incompetence. “Survived” centers the person and their experience |
| "Attention-seeking" | "In emotional pain" or "struggling" | Dismissive phrases minimize real suffering and prevent connection. |
| "Suicidal person" | "Person experiencing suicidal thoughts/ideation" | Person-first language reduces stigma and emphasizes that the crisis is a temporary state and not an identity. |
How to ask without harming
One of the biggest fears many face is whether asking about suicide will put the idea in someone’s head. While it’s too simplistic to suggest that as a sole cause, you should approach the conversation carefully, in a calm and direct manner. Avoid showing judgment or shock if someone shares thoughts of suicide — focus instead on listening and validating. Most important, don’t leave the person alone. Help them reach a mental health professional, crisis line or other trusted support system.
Protecting others starts with our words
Changing our language is a simple but powerful way to support those around us. Replacing judgment with compassion can help reduce stigma and make it easier for people to ask for support. Choosing the right language can put a person before their mental health condition, not make it their identity. Speaking carefully can make a difference. Sometimes a single kind phrase can give someone enough pause to seek support.
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If you or someone you know is in crisis, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 9-8-8 or 800-273-8255.